I was told as a kid “the only thing certain in this life is death and taxes”. The older I get the more I see that is almost true. They forgot that the only constant in life is Change. For some change is a good thing. It is wanted, welcomed, and prayed for. For others change is dreaded, feared, and worried over. For all though it is constant.
God has a way of placing change in our lives when we least expect it least desire it and most need it. We are often left twisting in the wind over something we can’t control not knowing what the end result will be. I have like many a love hate relationship with change. When I feel it is for my benefit I am all in no questions asked. I greet change with a smile and a fresh zeal. When the change isn’t going to benefit me as much, or the change is difficult I fight it with every part of me.
Something I have recently learned but am still working on is being willing to change things that are hurtful to save yourself. You have to not be scared to make drastic changes that need to be made to save your feelings. You are the most important person in your life. Don’t continue to hurt for the sake of others. Find what makes you happy, what puts a smile on your face, joy in your heart and peace in your soul. You are not guaranteed tomorrow and it would be a terrible situation to spend the rest of your life miserable.
Don’t live your life in pain or distress over something that you have ultimate control over. Love yourself, love those around you, and do what makes you happy. This is your only life we only get one chance here on this earth. Make memories over money, love over regret, and happiness over distress. Those that love you want to see you happy. Last but not least Do Not fear the inevitable love and embrace it.
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